Monday, March 29, 2010

Frame her vs. Blame her

I'm not sure which bothered me more: the fact that Noah purposely placed his toy right next to Ari, who was laying on the floor at the time, or the fact that he chastised her and repossessed the toy from her slobbery grip. We've been dealing with new baby sister issues longer than we expected, but as down as we get during these episodes we certainly cherish the other moments of contrast.

Making Ari giggle is an addictive game: She bounces up an down, curls up her body, reveals her big dimples and shining eyes, sticks her hand in her mouth and squeaks and drools uncontrollably. Nobody elicits this response as powerfully and easily as Noah. Ari can't get enough of his games like suddenly appearing from behind a door, dancing around the room Risky Business style in his undies, singing loud gibberish, and the grandaddy of them all: his own intoxicating laugh.

Despite his intentional interruptions of her naps, his adamant protests when I hold Ari in my arms, his sometimes violent physical impulses, and his play-by-play announcing of every house rule she unknowingly violates, Noah is still Baby Ari's rock star, her protector and her crush.

As their relationship continually levels out and turns into Klaber vs. Klaber, I hope the competition between these two seemingly strong-willed siblings serves mostly uplifting ends and retains the laughter and adoration we now enjoy.

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